Preparing a Young Person for University
Seeing a friend or family member off to university is bound to trigger mixed emotions.
While some young people will navigate the transition with ease, a portion of students may need a little extra support.
We've compiled our top tips to help you support students as they prepare for university, from managing their student loan and budgeting effectively, to encouraging them to get involved in social activities and build new connections.
Budgeting
How can I help my young person budget their student loan?
Whether they're is moving into accommodation or staying at home, learning to budget effectively is an essential life skill. To help them get a head start before their first term begins, consider setting them a budget challenge.
Agree on a monthly spending allowance and encourage them to track their income and expenses each week. Make it clear that once the budget is set, it won't be topped up by you if they run low - this will help them understand how to manage their finances. As student loan payments are typically made in instalments each term, this exercise will teach them how to make their money last!
Social Life
What should I do if they're struggling to make friends at university?
It’s completely normal for freshers to feel overwhelmed at the thought of making new friends.
While some students form bonds very quickly, it can take others some time to feel settled in a new environment. If your child is feeling anxious about making new friends, encourage them to consider joining a society. This is a great opportunity for them to socialise and meet people with similar interests and network outside of their course.
Employment
Should I encourage them to get a job at university?
If the young person is managing their workload well, encouraging them to take up a part-time job is a great idea. Many of our courses offer the opportunity to go on placements or relevant work experience, connecting students with potential employers and helping them secure a job after graduation.
If they're just looking to earn some extra cash during term-time, companies in the local town are usually looking for temporary staff. Encourage them to take their CV and ask around if there are any positions available.
We also offer on-campus work to several students, from working in the SU, to the library or canteen.
Keeping in Touch
How often should I contact them?
Before they leave home, agree with your son, daughter or loved one how often you will communicate. Remember to encourage the right balance of contact with you, as well as an investment in new relationships.
In the first few weeks, try to wait for them to reach out. If they’re feeling homesick, you might want to encourage them to come home, however, this may not benefit them in the long run. It might be more appropriate to provide reassurance that things will get easier, and perhaps arrange a time for you to go and visit them.
Supporting a young person applying to the University of Chichester? Join our Facebook group for parents and carers to access helpful resources, share experiences, and connect with others navigating the journey!
Remember, the first few weeks can be very busy and exciting, which means there’s also potential for it to be tiring and stressful. Encourage your child to try new things and take advantage of the wide range of opportunities on offer.
